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done to keep you alive. In many instances that's
totally appropriate. I am absolutely for intensive
care and the use of technology in medical care. I just
think that there are instances in which it behooves
patients and families to have conversations way
upstream from an acute crisis moment where they
say—no matter if they've been diagnosed with an
illness or not-- "Listen, this is what's important to
me in my life. This is what gives my life meaning
and purpose." Have a conversation with yourself
about that, but then also share it with family, with
friends, whoever you consider your loved ones, so
that if you end up in a moment in time where you're
unable to speak for yourself, or even if you are able
to speak for yourself, that you have a clear sense of
what you really want.
Back in the day, all we did was focus on
feel like your health is slipping away from you,
you may have a better sense of how to tailor the
conversation and discuss it with a healthcare
provider. If I'm hearing, "I'm having a hard time
breathing," and if it looks as though things will
continue to get worse, are you somebody who
would want a breathing tube to help you breathe
even if it meant you may have to stay on that
machine for many weeks or many months or the
rest of your life? I think it's very helpful to have
these conversations early on and to know that for
patients at this point, you have to advocate for
yourself if there are specific things that you want
and, even more importantly, things that you don't
want. The medical system has a way of doing
things that you really have to aggressively opt out
of if you don't want those things done.
To normalize death as
a part of life early on is
the right thing to do.
comfort. We've come so far from a technological
perspective and I think that's wonderful. We
also need to recognize that we aren't at a place
where we're preventing and curing all illness. I
hope that day comes, but until then, we need to
focus on what to do when a cure does not exist. I
think we've forgotten about that in our medical
education. As a consumer society we're so used
to getting everything quickly. We love the magic
bullet to make us better. That doesn't exist for
everything.
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